I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me but I don’t know for sure. How can I tell if he is cheating?

First, think about why you think he is cheating. Is he acting differently or is it just that you have been cheated on in the past? If you have been cheated on before, it’s easy to assume that you will be cheated on again. That means you aren’t giving your boyfriend enough credit and before you know it, he will be cheatin on you because you never trusted him and he is on happy - that is called a self-fulling prophecy.

On the other hand, if you really just have a guy feeling that something is not right, you may want to look for some certain signs.

If you always used to have time to hang out after school but now he’s always busy, there is a chance that he is seeing someone else. Of course, it could also just mean he needs a little space and wants some time with the guys.

If he gets really, really mad at you if you try to look through his phone, that is a sure sign that he is cheating. There really is no other reason a guy would not want you to look through his phone. Especially if you always used to do it and now suddenly he freaks out if you even touch the thing.

On the same note, if he gets calls while you are together but he doesn’t answer them, he could be cheating.

The biggest tip of all is when he cancels plans on Friday because he’s grounded but then a friend mentions seeing him at the movie theater or somewhere else. If he’s lying to you so he doesn’t have to spend time with you, it’s very likely that he is cheating on you.