My ex-boyfriend’s brother told me that he likes me. But he said that he can’t ask me out. I think he’s being stupid, what do you think?

I think your ex-boyfriend’s brother sounds like a great guy, and he is wise beyond his years. Here’s the thing. Most high school relationships end, and rather quickly. You already know that because your relationship with the first brother ended.

Brother #2 realizes that brothers are for life- and girlfriends are not. He would never choose to hurt his brother by dating you. It would be awkward and weird and he just does not want to get into that kind of mess. It’s not worth it because in six weeks when the two of you break up, the relationship will be over and you will move on. But his relationship with his brother could be damaged for life and that is not cool.

Sounds like Brother #2 is a decent, caring guy. Unfortunately no matter how much you like him, you have to walk away. If you date him, all the things that make him a decent guy will be gone and you’ll be dating a selfish jerk. So do both of you a favor and move on from this family completely.